Living in healthiness is a constant.
In 2002, I trained to run my first marathon which I didn’t end up running due to a knee injury but the training was well worth it because I pushed my body to new fitness levels, and I learned new ways to eat to refuel the body when you tax it like in marathon training. Even Vaseline took on a whole new meaning to me.
The toughest part in that marathon training was not the running itself because I was fine once I got outside and started to run. The key phrase was, “…once I got outside.” The hardest part was actually getting my bootie out the door to go run, and staying disciplined in sticking to my training schedule.
That saying is so true, "90% of life is just showing up."
One of my marathon buddies taught me this saying which often helped me get out from under the warm and comfy of my Calvin Klein comforter when I was training for a race and didn’t feel like going out for my run that day. The saying went like this:
“Just put on your shoes.”
Simple tiny action, and yes effective at motivation. Why? The effortless act of putting on your shoes means that prior to putting on said shoes; you will go put on your running clothes. Once you are actually decked out in your running attire with your shoes on, the motivation to go run should start to surge through you because well, you're now running warrior clad.
The act of putting on the shoes starts the momentum out the door which if you’re like me is actually the hardest part of the run…again leaving the house....showing up for the road.
We do use Jedi mind tricks
A Jedi mind trick that used to help me get the shoes on was to pretend that I was putting on the magic shoes much like Cinderella.
See these running shoes wouldn’t necessarily bring Prince Charming, but who knows because one of my cousins met her future husband on the jog trail, but that the running shoes would bring me a medal from finishing the marathon, and bring me one step closer to wearing the skinny jeans again; things almost as good as Prince Charming...accomplishment and vanity are pretty effective motivators.
The simple act of putting the running shoes is like squirting the lighter fluid on the barbecue coals. The starter gets the fire going, and then you get more excited because the certainty of you eating that juicy grilled grass fed beef hamburger becomes closer to becoming reality. I’m now licking my chops.
Now time to be Zen
My friend Roger reminded me of a Zen saying about life:
Before enlightenment, I chopped wood and carried water.
After enlightenment, I chopped wood and carried water.
The important lesson I take in this saying is that there is no done with the daily chores once we reach our goal which in the Zen case is enlightenment and metaphorically in my case, having the healthy body I wanted. As well, just because we reach our goal doesn’t mean that we are now above doing the deemed menial tasks because now we’re enlightened or skinny. So....
Before healthiness, I chopped spinach and drank water.
After healthiness, I chopped spinach and drank water.
Like many, I had this wild notion that once I achieved my goal of getting back in the skinny jeans, then I was “done,” done doing the daily work, done trying, done being on the weight loss program.
Here is the hard cold reality no one wants to hear including myself, but once I fully got it, and accepted it as a fact, it played a big part in helping me create a lifestyle that enables me to stay in my skinny jeans long term:
There is no “done.”
I know. Ouch! The truth is you will never be “done” with the work, the habits and commitment it takes to have a healthy body.
The body doesn’t go into skinny jeans auto-pilot just like a marriage doesn’t go into auto-pilot and thrive just because there is a ring. I know it is so much more alluring to hear what we want like the stuff that makes for intoxicating infomercials like, “…and never will you have to work out again” or “and keep the weight off while still being able to eat whatever you want.”
Staying in the skinny jeans is an on-going process that extends past the latest 12-week program you’re on. Yoda said, “There is do or do not. There is no try.” Using back in skinny jeans metaphors, “There is exercise or no exercise. There is no try. There is making better food choices or not making better food choices. There is no try. There is forgiveness or no forgiveness. There is no try.”
I started to think, I am in a state of optimal health or I am not. I am in my skinny jeans or I am not. Then what must I do to move from one state to the other? See there is no program, there just is.
Therefore, then, what must I do to create a state of being that gives me the body I want? Well, here's a tiny action to remember...
You will continue to put on your shoes.
Note: Photo from Flickr by The Freddy Portfolio